Dating a beautiful woman is the goal of every man since middle
school. As a youngster, men jump through hoops trying to impress the
attractive members of the opposite sex. As young adults, men invest in
everything to appear more appealing to women. The romance and conquest
games played by young people change substantially as both sides age.
The whole dynamic changes as the man gets a little older, a little wiser and little less clueless about the opposite sex. Men stop judging themselves by the measuring stick of their significant others beauty. Instead they are focused on career, accomplishment and competing in the game of life.
This makes them even more attractive to beautiful women who, among other things, find success very desirable. The beautiful young girl who had legions of pursuers panting after them is now finding herself competing with younger ladies.
This is the time for the older man to sit back and enjoy the role reversal. Although it appears that women want men to chase them, at the mature stage, the game changes and the men become the hunted and the attractive women become the hunters. Success implies that the men are good providers and can afford a lifestyle that the beautiful women crave. Expensive cars, meals, travel and jewelry are all trappings that attract women like moths to a flame.
Here are some ideas to attract beautiful women as an older successful man.
Don't act like they are anything special.
Nothing irritates the beautiful woman more than not being the center of attention. If you act as if she is not the center of your attention you are going to make her wonder why you are the only one that isn't fawning over her. The over-developed ego of the beautiful woman demands attention in every venue and screams that she is the most desirable and coveted female in any situation. Your ambivalence will drive her nuts, especially if you are displaying the qualities of an accomplished successful man.
Don't chase her
Chasing her puts you right back in the pack with everyone else that is trying to catch her and will encourage her to keep you at arm's length. If you get her number, don't call her, don't ask her out and don't text her silly stuff asking about her day or what she is doing. If you run into her in a casual setting, tell her about your day, and more importantly, about your night. Let her understand that you are quite content being a successful interesting man and don't need her.
Don't flatter her
I am not suggesting you be mean, but for every compliment you give her, which should be few, make sure you point out areas in her life where she could improve. Her ego dictates that she has no flaws and is a queen to be treasured. Pointing out that she is not the perfect woman will cause her to look at you from a different perspective.
Don't expect miracles
Are these ideas going to win her over every time? NO. In fact sometimes it can result in her ire and disdain being directed at you. But that result can happen no matter which course you take. Her typical dates are self-absorbed pretty boys who think they are as beautiful as she is. These men are as much arm candy to her as she is to them. If you can't compete with them in terms of looks or physique level the playing field and let her realize that you are less flash and more substance. The personality challenged, shallow pretty boys and beautiful women are all vulnerable to playing with their over-inflated ego. Show her what she wants to see in the beginning. Success is a very attractive trait to a beautiful woman who wants a lifestyle but lacks the means to provide it for themselves.
The whole dynamic changes as the man gets a little older, a little wiser and little less clueless about the opposite sex. Men stop judging themselves by the measuring stick of their significant others beauty. Instead they are focused on career, accomplishment and competing in the game of life.
This makes them even more attractive to beautiful women who, among other things, find success very desirable. The beautiful young girl who had legions of pursuers panting after them is now finding herself competing with younger ladies.
This is the time for the older man to sit back and enjoy the role reversal. Although it appears that women want men to chase them, at the mature stage, the game changes and the men become the hunted and the attractive women become the hunters. Success implies that the men are good providers and can afford a lifestyle that the beautiful women crave. Expensive cars, meals, travel and jewelry are all trappings that attract women like moths to a flame.
Here are some ideas to attract beautiful women as an older successful man.
Don't act like they are anything special.
Nothing irritates the beautiful woman more than not being the center of attention. If you act as if she is not the center of your attention you are going to make her wonder why you are the only one that isn't fawning over her. The over-developed ego of the beautiful woman demands attention in every venue and screams that she is the most desirable and coveted female in any situation. Your ambivalence will drive her nuts, especially if you are displaying the qualities of an accomplished successful man.
Don't chase her
Chasing her puts you right back in the pack with everyone else that is trying to catch her and will encourage her to keep you at arm's length. If you get her number, don't call her, don't ask her out and don't text her silly stuff asking about her day or what she is doing. If you run into her in a casual setting, tell her about your day, and more importantly, about your night. Let her understand that you are quite content being a successful interesting man and don't need her.
Don't flatter her
I am not suggesting you be mean, but for every compliment you give her, which should be few, make sure you point out areas in her life where she could improve. Her ego dictates that she has no flaws and is a queen to be treasured. Pointing out that she is not the perfect woman will cause her to look at you from a different perspective.
Don't expect miracles
Are these ideas going to win her over every time? NO. In fact sometimes it can result in her ire and disdain being directed at you. But that result can happen no matter which course you take. Her typical dates are self-absorbed pretty boys who think they are as beautiful as she is. These men are as much arm candy to her as she is to them. If you can't compete with them in terms of looks or physique level the playing field and let her realize that you are less flash and more substance. The personality challenged, shallow pretty boys and beautiful women are all vulnerable to playing with their over-inflated ego. Show her what she wants to see in the beginning. Success is a very attractive trait to a beautiful woman who wants a lifestyle but lacks the means to provide it for themselves.
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