The word "love" is thrown around so easily these days that it's
hard to know when someone actually means it. When a person says they
love you, does that necessarily mean that it's true? Instead of relying
on a person's words, you have to look at their actions to see whether or
not they truly love you or are just trying to control you.
You have heard the saying that "actions speak louder than words". This is especially true when it comes to a love relationship. A person can tell you they love you like no other, but if they treat you terribly then it isn't real love. It would be like someone saying they love animals and then turning around and kicking a dog. Words mean nothing without the appropriate action to back them up. In fact, if you have ever known someone who was in an abusive relationship, their partner commonly tells them they love them and then hurts them physically or emotionally. That is a form of control, not love.
You have heard the saying that "actions speak louder than words". This is especially true when it comes to a love relationship. A person can tell you they love you like no other, but if they treat you terribly then it isn't real love. It would be like someone saying they love animals and then turning around and kicking a dog. Words mean nothing without the appropriate action to back them up. In fact, if you have ever known someone who was in an abusive relationship, their partner commonly tells them they love them and then hurts them physically or emotionally. That is a form of control, not love.
