Let's face it: dating can be brutal. But a good way to help
ensure success in dating is to know these five main rules. If you know
them, you are probably already experiencing dating success. If you
don't, then it's time to learn them. Knowing these dating rules will
make your dates more enjoyable and could even lead to a lasting
relationship.
1. It's not all about you. Sometimes we get so caught up trying to impress someone we are interested in, we forget what we're doing and start to babble on and on. We could be talking about our jobs, families, pets or neighborhoods, etc. This is why conversation should involve both people. It really doesn't matter what the topic is, as long as it's not all about you.
Make sure you ask your date questions and let the focus fall on them.
2. Trying too hard. You certainly don't need to show up in a tuxedo, but it doesn't have to be ripped jeans and a dirty t-shirt, either. Trying too hard is a definite turn-off for both sexes. Your date needs to know they are special enough that you put forth a reasonable effort, but at the same time you don't want to come off as desperate. That will send them out the door in a hurry.
3. Not trying enough. Not putting enough effort into it is just as deadly to a potential romance. There has to be a happy medium between not enough effort... and too much. Not preparing for a date is a form of disrespect. It tells your date it's all about you and they should just feel themselves lucky to be in your presence.
4. Pay attention. Don't keep checking your cellphone. If you are in a sports bar, don't keep looking up at the television or start checking out the attractive servers or other customers. And if you see someone you know on your date, don't invite them to spend the remainder of the evening with you. Be polite to anyone you encounter, but let them know you are on a date and you want to stay on it.
5. Do what you say you will do. If you say you want to see them later, make the arrangements. If you say you will call... do it. If you don't have any intention of following through with a plan, don't commit. If you break your word, you have immediately lost all credibility in their eyes and you could ruin any future chances the two of you might have.
1. It's not all about you. Sometimes we get so caught up trying to impress someone we are interested in, we forget what we're doing and start to babble on and on. We could be talking about our jobs, families, pets or neighborhoods, etc. This is why conversation should involve both people. It really doesn't matter what the topic is, as long as it's not all about you.
Make sure you ask your date questions and let the focus fall on them.
2. Trying too hard. You certainly don't need to show up in a tuxedo, but it doesn't have to be ripped jeans and a dirty t-shirt, either. Trying too hard is a definite turn-off for both sexes. Your date needs to know they are special enough that you put forth a reasonable effort, but at the same time you don't want to come off as desperate. That will send them out the door in a hurry.
3. Not trying enough. Not putting enough effort into it is just as deadly to a potential romance. There has to be a happy medium between not enough effort... and too much. Not preparing for a date is a form of disrespect. It tells your date it's all about you and they should just feel themselves lucky to be in your presence.
4. Pay attention. Don't keep checking your cellphone. If you are in a sports bar, don't keep looking up at the television or start checking out the attractive servers or other customers. And if you see someone you know on your date, don't invite them to spend the remainder of the evening with you. Be polite to anyone you encounter, but let them know you are on a date and you want to stay on it.
5. Do what you say you will do. If you say you want to see them later, make the arrangements. If you say you will call... do it. If you don't have any intention of following through with a plan, don't commit. If you break your word, you have immediately lost all credibility in their eyes and you could ruin any future chances the two of you might have.
Learn about yourself... are you having problems with dating? Are
destructive emotions at the heart of the problems you are experiencing
with a relationship. If so, maybe you need to get control of what you
are really telling yourself. What are your beliefs?
For nearly 25 years Beverleigh Piepers has searched for and found the principles to help you get to the root causes of your crisis.
The solution is not in the endless volumes of information you find across the internet, or the advice your friends give... it's in yourself; the thoughts that make you who you are.
For nearly 25 years Beverleigh Piepers has searched for and found the principles to help you get to the root causes of your crisis.
The solution is not in the endless volumes of information you find across the internet, or the advice your friends give... it's in yourself; the thoughts that make you who you are.
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