It's disappointing when you finally get up the nerve to go ahead
and approach a woman and try to flirt with her and then you find that
for whatever reason, she doesn't seem to be flirting back with you at
all. That kind of thing can shake your confidence, make you feel like
you have no chance of being able to do well with women, and can
eventually drive you to avoid approaching women altogether. You do know
that if you avoid approaching women, then you really don't stand much of
a chance of being able to attract a woman, so that option should be off
the table. What you need to do is find some tips for flirting that will
make her want to flirt back with you.
Here are 3 tips that will help you to achieve that:
1. When you open a conversation with a woman, use an opener that requires her to respond.
What I mean is, you need to leave her with a practical reason for answering back when you approach her. Some guys make the mistake of using an opener that is closed ended, so there really isn't much of a reason for a woman to respond to them if she doesn't really want to. Now, on the other hand, when you use an opener that is open ended, it kind of "forces" her to respond and start things off right for you.
2. Make her feel like you and her have an instant bond and she'll have no problems flirting back with you.
Another problem that guys face is that they don't really create a bonded feeling with a woman and if you don't do that, then she is not really going to feel that comfortable with you being there. You want her to feel comfortable. You want her to feel like she is totally cool with you talking to her and you want her to feel like she is having a good time.
3. You need to be able to use body language as a way to flirt with her as well.
Body language can build attraction with a woman a lot faster than any string of words that you can put together. With the right body language, you can make a woman feel totally in sync with you and you can even make her feel sexually attracted to you. When you can do that, you are not going to have much of a problem making her feel attracted to you.
Here are 3 tips that will help you to achieve that:
1. When you open a conversation with a woman, use an opener that requires her to respond.
What I mean is, you need to leave her with a practical reason for answering back when you approach her. Some guys make the mistake of using an opener that is closed ended, so there really isn't much of a reason for a woman to respond to them if she doesn't really want to. Now, on the other hand, when you use an opener that is open ended, it kind of "forces" her to respond and start things off right for you.
2. Make her feel like you and her have an instant bond and she'll have no problems flirting back with you.
Another problem that guys face is that they don't really create a bonded feeling with a woman and if you don't do that, then she is not really going to feel that comfortable with you being there. You want her to feel comfortable. You want her to feel like she is totally cool with you talking to her and you want her to feel like she is having a good time.
3. You need to be able to use body language as a way to flirt with her as well.
Body language can build attraction with a woman a lot faster than any string of words that you can put together. With the right body language, you can make a woman feel totally in sync with you and you can even make her feel sexually attracted to you. When you can do that, you are not going to have much of a problem making her feel attracted to you.
The more you can make her feel sexually attracted to you, the easier it is to get her to respond to you. Go to: How to Sexually Attract Women to get your complimentary guide to attracting and seducing women.
Copyright (c) 2013 Chris G. Tyler. All Rights Reserved.
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